Coming Home Late

This is my first time posting. But anyways, I am just going to get right to it, why start with a whole intro.

It seems there is this thing that if you are married, if you are coming home late you have to wake your wife up and let her know when you are home. This is even if you hung up with her 10 minutes ago telling her you will be home real soon. If thats not bad enough, half the time my wife does not even remember I woke her up to tell her I was home and then she is not sure to believe me if I woke her up. THere are times I dont wake her up but thats because she sounds so bombed on the phone and I try and be considerate by not waking her up. But ya know, I guess its a security blanket or something to be woken up. Bottom line, its a lose lose situation!